Dress for the (sexy) weather: Another way of looking at outfits for this sort of party, is to think of it as "sexy weather". In San Francisco, you dress with layers so you can feel comfortable in any (real) weather. The hotter it gets, the more you can take off layers. At our events, it's the same thing: If you come in layers, the "hotter" it gets, the more you can shed and still feel awesome and sexy!

⭐ Outfits that make you feel fun, sexy, playful, magical, sparkly, and easy to connect with

⭐ Outfits that are comfortable and make you want to play

⭐ Outfits that will have people say “oooooh, I love your outfit!”

Examples of styles: "Burner-wear", "Leather & Feather", west-coast tribal style, upscale, sassy, BDSM, playful, sexy.

Stores in the SF Bay Area and Northern California

Wild Feather (Website or Lower Haight in SF)Ceiba Records and Piedmont Boutique (Upper Haight in SF) are great places to look for great men's clothes. Also Amae Love (www.amaelove.com and private store in Oakland, contact Amae +13104282942). Amazon has great/inexpensive cosplay outfits too! Also Samiah Fine Clothing (vests & more), Beautiful Jewelry by Angela Blessing, and Demobaza (pricey but amazing, inspired by the movie Dune)

Also:

Raptrix (BDSM accessories)

Roufe

Altur

For Men

amazing underwear, booty shorts, or pants & shoes, along with beautiful necklace, armbands, rings, etc. Top has to be more than a standard shirt or t-shirt.

For Women and Others

anything that works for men, plus dresses, lingerie, glitter/glam jewelry, incredible boots/shoes, booty shorts, etc. And of course, Amazon.

Note: We discourage outfits that will get caught on other people like wings and heardresses as well as pieces that shed, such as feather boas.

Styling for Men and Women

As part of my coaching practice, I offer a journey of re-empowerment and re-invention through the art of styling, clothing, and accessorizing. I believes that the soul of every human is brought to life by parts and archetypes which can be expressed by this art for the purpose of transformation and growth. Working with me means exploring and developing a sense of this art, and growing desired archetypes through its practice. Our work will involve both coaching to discover your unique style, wardrobe evaluation, as well as shoppping for the pieces that will best express your style and fit your body perfectly. Email me with questions here.