Dress for the (sexy) weather: Another way of looking at outfits for this sort of party, is to think of it as "sexy weather". In San Francisco, you dress with layers so you can feel comfortable in any (real) weather. The hotter it gets, the more you can take off layers. At our events, it's the same thing: If you come in layers, the "hotter" it gets, the more you can shed and still feel awesome and sexy!

⭐ Outfits that make you feel fun, sexy, playful, magical, sparkly, and easy to connect with

⭐ Outfits that are comfortable and make you want to play

⭐ Outfits that will have people say “oooooh, I love your outfit!”

Examples of styles: "Burner-wear", "Leather & Feather", west-coast tribal style, upscale, sassy, BDSM, playful, sexy.

Stores: Wild Feather (Website or Lower Haight in SF), Ceiba Records and Piedmont Boutique (Upper Haight in SF) are great places to look for great men's clothes. Also Amae Love (www.amaelove.com and private store in Oakland, contact Amae +13104282942). Amazon has great/inexpensive cosplay outfits too!

For men: amazing underwear, booty shorts, or pants & shoes, along with beautiful necklace, armbands, rings, etc. Top has to be more than a standard shirt or t-shirt.

For women and others: anything that works for men, plus dresses, lingerie, glitter/glam jewelry, incredible boots/shoes, booty shorts, etc. And of course, Amazon.

Note: We discourage outfits that will get caught on other people like wings and heardresses as well as pieces that shed, such as feather boas.