The night of a Club Exotica event you will join a select group of amazing sexy people of all genders and of many ages for a night of celebration, passion, bliss, and delight inspired by stories and myths created from the pure strands of our imagination. The night will be like a menu from which you can choose—a la carte—as few or as many items as you please. You will find a multitude of things to desire and much to fulfill you. And, while some of the menu will thrill you, some may not interest you at all. Our events are designed that way. In it, you will be allowed to explore and grow. You will be allowed to play and discover. You will allowed to be hot, sexy, powerful, grand, handsome, beautiful, and gorgeous. You will be allowed to express yourself—respectfully—in any way you want. This is a space of permission, caring, respect and FUN.

It is a space of CO-CREATION.

The vision of Club Exotica is to create wondrous exotic spaces and environments to explore intimacy, relationships, sensuality, and sexuality. We do this by finding amazing venues, wonderful and rich themes, amazing performers and music, and putting them together to create a tableau where fantasies can become reality. Thus, we create the space for the most important ingredient of the event to enter and flourish.

This element is YOU, our guests!

By coming to our event, you become part of the story, part of the dream, part of Club Exotica. But that's not all. Your mere presence, while great in and of itself, requires something more.

It requires your COMMITMENT.

In other words, your presence at our event is an agreement to step powerfully—with us—into the story we create together! By reading this agreement completely, and saying YES to each aspect of the event that we create, and knowing that you are in alignment with all that this event is about, you will experience having an INCREDIBLE TIME.

The more committed you are, the more GORGEOUS and the more ATTRACTIVE you will feel.

You will know everything, feel everything, as part of the celebration. You will be able to approach with the right words, the right gaze, the right body language. And this will make you a person or a couple that others want to connect with to have a wonderful time.

Your commitment will give you CONFIDENCE, STRENGTH and OPENNESS.

Ready to jump in? We certainly are. The story begins from the moment you read the invitation to the event, to RSVP'ing and answering carefully all that we ask, to purchasing your ticket. But that's not all. Eventually, you will be asked to fully become part of the story, to write the next chapter, to become part of..

A dream.

Take a minute to ask yourself...

"What will I bring to this celebration?"

"How will I bring my desires and personally manifest them for myself and all to enjoy?"

"If I am coming to this event with a beloved one, how will we agree to play together or alone so as to celebrate and honor ourselves and our relationship?"

The Agreements of Club Exotica events

Why do we do this? We find that by making sure everyone agrees to co-create the event in the same ways, we end up with an event that is sexier, hotter, more fun and more safe for everyone! Please take a moment to review the agreements here and make sure you're a "hell yes". Your signature will be required when you RSVP, and when you order tickets or when you enter the event!

Ready? Repeat after us...

"I agree to..."

1. Come With a Playful Sexy Costume and Character!

Sexy, playful, seductive, and alluring... any piece of clothing in your closet or in your ability to imagine that makes you feel confident, sensual, and aroused. For your costume to qualify, it has to be amazing enough that it would attract attention if you wore it on the street. As for the role, it should match the theme and your costume so as to enhance your experience and the experience of others.

Click here for more ideas on what to wear!

2. Connect Well with Others!

This means connecting with people I don't know or people I am not usually attracted to. This means getting to know people, their boundaries, their attractions, their desires, and finding ways to give them the experience they want.

3. NOT Take Photos!

Photos are not allowed at our event. We may have professional photographers who will be taking photos of people with the express permission of the guests. Later on, they will post them on a secret site for all them to see.

4. Manage My Level of Intoxication!

This means I won't get too intoxicated in any way, or else I may not be invited for later events.

5. Be Respectful and Generous with My Touch!

Respect is required for ALL touch (as well as ALL interactions). This means connecting with people before touching and responding clearly (with a “yes”, “no”, “yes, but...”, “no, but...”) to any touch offered. Also, explicit consent is required for all touch involving genitals and nipples

6. Be a Yes to What Works for Me!

This means I can say Yes or No whenever I like. This also means being ok with anyone saying Yes or No in response to any invitations you may make. This means making agreements and/or checking in with my lover(s)/partner(s)/date(s) before and during the event. This also means facilitating what is most appropriate at any given time for me and others so they have a great time. This means being a YES to what works for me, and a YES to what works for others. This means playing well with others. This means showing up at the event and intending to PLAY (in a sexy way, which of course doesn't mean "sexual")!

7. Exercise My Right to Say No (Politely)!

This means saying "no" in a way that is open and generous, and allows for another possible offering. For example, if someone offers a massage, I can say, “No, but you can feed me a chocolate!” The point is to create a fun/playful interaction that works for everyone. This also means getting involved with conscious, deliberate and clear intentions. If I are not sure, it's okay for me to sit back and wait. Or, if I am already involved with someone, this means calling things off clearly and respectfully if it's time for me to stop.

8. Contribute!

Our events are co-created pieces of temporary social art. This means that I bring the things I want and need to the events, so I feel great! It also means that I share them with others so they experience how great they are, too! These can be anything from massage hands, to chocolates, to soft furs, to games, to a great costume, or anything other gifts or ideas for interacting with people, allowing me to connect with them even more easily.

9. Have Safer-Sex Conversations With Anyone I Play With Sexually!

This means having safe-sex conversations, practice safe sex and use safe sex supplies when engaging in fluid sharing play (there will be some available at the event in strategic places). This means stopping for a moment to have that conversation, even if it might be uncomfortable and even if it might kill the moment.

10. Ask for Feedback!

I will offer care/consideration towards others I engaged with at the event, and also welcome feedback. This is a two way engagement where feedback about what happened is both offered and requested. "Would you be willing to share together about our engagement?", "What went well in our engagement(s)?", "What didn't go so well?", "What could I/we do (even) better/different (looking back or next time)?". This is how we learn to do better with each other using a learning, care and growth mindset.

11. Engage in Repair if Needed

If something happens at our event didn't feel good, comfortable, or right (to myself or someone else), I will at least be willing to find a way to support a movement towards a clearing and repair process, and get support if needed. If nothing else, I will let the producers or CARE team know so that they can offer support to anyone who needs it.

12. Collaborate!

If I don’t follow these agreements willingly and well enough, I may not be invited again to future Club Exotica, or events by Philippe or Jocelyn. It's in my best interest and the best interest of everyone to support everyone following the spirit (and letter, whenever possible) of these agreements.

About the Agreements

The agreements are the structure that allows everyone to play as safely as possible on the "playground" that each of these event creates. Playing on the playground is, however, not inherently safe. By coming to this event you acknowledge that you have fully read the agreements below and that you understand how they work and what they mean and the risks that come with playing with others on this playground (feel free to message Philippe via WhatsApp +14155050786 with any questions).

These events are neither high risk nor low risk. If you are “risk-averse”, this is likely not the right event for you. But if you are somewhat risk tolerant, you’ll find that this space is a great place to play, experiment, and explore.

By coming to this event, you acknowledge that you enter a space where honest accidents and mistakes will be made occasionally, and agree to be willing to offer constructive compassionate feedback to the people you engaged with during the event for the purpose of learning in community with them. If for any reason you feel hurt or harmed by someone's actions, you also agree to at least be willing to let us know and explore a repair and apology process with a neutral third party. But before this happens, we will be happy to receive and validate your experience and offer you a space of care and consideration.